In The Moment | Queen Creek Photographer

I was having some thoughts today as I was struggling to listen to my kids tell me all sorts of things about their day.  I realized they were asking questions and I was giving answers but I never heard the question.  Have you ever done this?  Please say I am not the only one.  Anyhow, one of the questions asked was, “Mom, when does Karate Kid come out to the movie theatres?”  My answer (and the ah-hah moment that I was NOT in the moment) was, “Tomorrow.”  What was I talking about?  I had no idea!  I was just talking because I was hearing talking with a slight influx of the voice and a pause which typically means it is time to answer one of the million questions being asked.  (I was caught when the next question was, “really, tomorrow?”  Then I had to stop and realize what I had done and ask her to repeat the question. Embarrassing?)

I was sad.

I wanted to erase what was swimming in my mind.  I wanted to delete the other responsibilities in my life and really be MOM at that moment.  I wanted the kids to count on me being honest with a open ear.  I wanted to make a conscious effort to be In The Moment with each hat that I wear.  I want to be In The Moment when I photograph, I want to be In The Moment when I teach, I want to be In The Moment when I mother, etc.  Should I add that to my 2010 goals?  Oh, when is the cutoff date for new year’s resolutions and goals?  Did I miss that memo?  : )

I am always after the real stuff.  I want people to be In The Moment.  I want to capture their true interactions and real emotions.  Lately, I have been loving my 70-200 2.8 lens so I can get a little further away (hide I suppose) and get those real moments.  There is some pressure when being in front of the camera, a pressure to perform.  The closer I am, the more pressure.  I have tried to back up and I like that experience.  Ya know, I am always changing (learning and growing) and by challenging the way I do things, new worlds open up!

Here, a mother truly being In The Moment with her daughter.  This was in between some pictures I was doing-I turned to see this and tucked myself in a corner so I could capture its realness.  To me, it is a beautiful, real “In The Moment” type moment!

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The Perfectly Posed | Mesa, AZ Photography

I usually have children running to and fro…  but these guys were experienced.  They have this perfect “huddle” pose.  It was like they had been doing this for years.  We grab a spot, I set up my camera, look up, and they are in position, ready to roll. 

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Family Photography | Mesa, AZ

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just looks like fun!  If only we could see her little face!  ; )

Children’s Photography | Mesa, AZ | Eyes

I have this issue, sorta like a pet peeve… its about eyes.  First, I am not a fan of over processed eyes!  Ya know what I mean?  Too colorful, too white, etc.  I should go find a picture that I did when I was first learning PS.  Oh boy, I really worked the eyes and it was not good.  Anyhow, the second pet peeve is out of focus eyes, or should I say oh so slightly out of focus eyes.  I have more than my fair share “oh so slightly out of focus” eyes.  Here is a little one with awesome eyes.  She stared into the camera!  I love the color (untouched with PS) and I like the focus but what about catchlights.  I love that I can see my stance through her eyes.  Are eyes really the windows to one’s soul?  (are you noting the ever changing watermark?  If you want to give me direction/help and feedback, please do!)

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